We decided to live together

You have a loved one with whom you have been together for a long time. And the moment came when you decided that want to live together. But the question arises, from whom to live? Ideal option - if one of you has a separate apartment, where no one lives. At any time you can move there and begin to equip your nest. But most couples, in the modern world, have no such opportunity. Consider where can you stay, pros and cons of this or that option.

Sharing with his parents

Exists a number of disadvantages of living together with the mother-in-law.

• First of all, the mother-in-law will be jealous of his son for you. She, of course, can also be understood - she raised her child all her life, petted him and cherished. considers himself wiser and more experienced. This is not devoid of common sense, of course, only you do not feel better from this. There is a possibility that all the time you live together, she will give advice, teach, talk about how best to do this or that. For her, she will feel that she is doing the right thing. You will be so annoyed by her instructions.
• No wonder they say that two housewives in the kitchen never get along. Or she will prepare, to your arrival from work, a dish that you can not stand. And you have to eat and pretend that you are crazy about her cooking! Or you will cook something, and then you will see her pursed lips, and even statements about your culinary success.

• It is necessary to take into account age features. The fact that you, because of youth, it seems normal and completely natural, it may seem outrageous! The problem of fathers and children has not been canceled.
• You and your mother-in-law lived in different families and in different conditions. You have different life experiences with her and a look at the same things. Perhaps she has a habit of singing in the bathroom in the morning, and you want to sleep for a while or, on the contrary, you have to do it. And you, for sure, have habits that may not suit your mother-in-law. And because youwill have to adapt because you live in her house, and not vice versa!
• If you live with your husband's mom, then you will not be able to freely, at any time, when you want to come friends. It will be necessary to reckon with the desire of the mother in law. Will she allow it. At the same time, she will be able to invite her friends when she sees fit.

Sharing with YOUR parents

• On the part of your mother will be present no less jealousy than her mother-in-law. She may start to be offended that now you belong not only to her.
• Tips, too, will undoubtedly be present. And it will be advised not only to you, but also to your beloved. On the one hand, this is certainly good, on the other hand - sometimes annoying.
• At the weekend, most likely, will not be able to sleep longer. Mom will always find things, and if you do not want to do something around the house, she will blame you on your neck with your loved one.

Advantages of living together with parents

There are also advantages of sharing with parents.

1. Imagine you come home from work, and on the table you are already waiting for a hot dinner, carefully prepared by your mother or mother-in-law. In addition, there is always someone look after your future children, if you want to visit with friends, yes, or just go to the cinema.
2. His mother, most likely, will tell you about the past of his beloved. You will learn more about his habits, morals. And this is undoubtedly a big plus.
3. Your friends already will not come at the wrong moment. First of all, they will call you to find out if it is convenient.
4. Paying for utilities accounts for much less, or not at all.

In short, you choose. And you can never all fit under one standard situation. It is possible that you will find a wonderful mother-in-law, who will make your life together happiness! In general, sit down with your beloved, discuss everything in detail, and decide which option suits you best!

Good luck to you living together!

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