How to drag him to the registrar

Your favorite is afraid of the word registry office? What you just have not tried. At the beginning of the relationship it suited you, because he loves you with you. And here recently you started to think. It seems that you have been dating for a long time, but she does not call her in marriage, what is wrong?

Wherever you look, all your friends have long been married. Mom constantly asks, when will your beloved dare to make you an offer. You tell her that now there are other times, no one looks at this stamp in the passport, but still an unpleasant feeling settles inside you. Suddenly I don’t mean anything to him if he doesn’t call me married?

As a result, you are constantly winding up, you are in a bad mood, and the question is spinning in your head: "How can you drag him to the registry office?" There is even a proverb about such a case - unmarried marriage. And now, the moment comes when you explode and say you have enough, it can no longer continue, you are no longer a girl, after all, and you cannot always be in the status of a girlfriend, you want something calmer and more settled. Your patience is broken and you think how to do to legitimize your relationship.

It is difficult to dissuade a convinced person of anything. Surely, you yourself have already weighed all the pros and cons of the wedding. You just firmly decided: let him marry or rolls on all four sides. Anyway, you, too, can not be constantly in limbo. Human patience is limitless, but there is a limit to everything, and now it is with you.

Ways how to drag a loved one to the registrar.

1. drag on with deceit: well, and already, what you will do is your business, you will tie up, give you some sleeping pills, stick a muzzle of a pistol, of course it's ridiculous, but as they say, all means are good in a war.
2. to persuade, i.e. Every day, regularly putting this thought into his consciousness, at first gently ask, then you can cry, maybe he will surrender.
3. furnish everything so that he himself wanted it, and did not even think that for you it was a fix idea.

And now more in detail.

Remember, if you are determined to marry a convinced bachelor, then you will have to try a variety of measures.

The most common, to go on some kind of deception, blackmail, but the question arises is whether the man wants to live with a woman who married him to herself this way?

You can get pregnant or "pretend" that got pregnant. The way is dirty, but often effective. Unfortunately, not at all, it works, imagine how you feel. if he just turns around and leaves, or asks you to have an abortion.

Another way is the most common blackmail. "Oh, you do not want to marry me, then I leave," "I mean, you do not need at all!" Of course, this method affects your pride, self-respecting woman, is unlikely to ask for a wedding. And then it turns out all the way around, not he wants you, and you him.

You can do without blackmail, but to walk a sort of princess-nesmeyanoy, which has already become indifferent, nothing pleases, and this is because he has deprived you of the joy of life. Although men are very unsuspecting creatures, perhaps he will figure out what the reason for sadness is and correct it.

One of my friends claimed: "Why argue with a man, he will only get annoyed by this, you just need to cry in time. Women's tears are a huge weapon against men." But, I will allow to disagree, tears, though a weapon, but not always. Constant tantrums will not soften, but will lead anyone out of themselves. Tears are mostly carried out by mama's sons and mumbles, this is not a real peasant. Although again you decide.

In my opinion, men are now so lazy and zazhralis that drag a hardened bachelor into the registry office is almost impossible. If he were not such a bachelor, he would have been married a long time ago.

But you're not going to back down either, right? Maybe he doesn’t even mind registering a relationship, he just doesn’t want him all the fuss with preparation, monetary costs. Why would he do so many unnecessary movements. He is all fine.

Tell him that you will take over the whole organization, or you can not do a magnificent wedding, but limit yourself to the closest. Only then do not blame him for not helping you, it was your initiative.

But it is best to go the way of the smallest collision. For example, gently hinting to him that if you were married, you would have more advantages than now.

To do this, decompose him all the advantages of marriage. For example, if you were married, you would have a lot of discounts, as for a couple, and you could call each other new and such cute words husband and wife. But also, of course, the way does not affect everyone and you should think about it before applying it.

There is such a good phrase - to get a person to do what you need in one way: to make sure that he wants to do it. Here, and we will act in such a way that your man doesn’t guess that they want to marry him, but he himself went to the registry office as a nice little one.

And he didn’t just want it, but he really wanted his legs to be literally carried to the registry office. Our men have completely relaxed, soon we will strive for them, look after them, women wake up! Make your man become a getter again, he managed to get you, and now let him try and drag him to the registry office.

The most important thing is to make him doubt that you want to get married. Ask your friends to send flowers to your home, come home from work a little later, make a new hairstyle, in short, make him jealous! Let your man once again feel that you are the most beautiful and best girl in the world, as at the very beginning of your relationship. But, the main thing here is not to overdo it, but it really thinks that you have another.

Or in general, spit on this wedding and go somewhere to rest without him. Evolve, gain strength and do not think about anything, and let him be jealous, as you are there without him. And you will come rested, prettier, and forget to think about all sorts of weddings there. So in fact often happens, as soon as you forget and let go of what most recently seemed to you to be extremely necessary, the desired will come to you!