In my opinion, family happiness lies in the irresistible desire of the faithful to the home, so skillfully arranged by his wife (that I wish with an avid frequency to all newlyweds at weddings, along with other "useful" toasts). And, naturally, having come home after work, tired, with hungry eyes, your husband wants to see in front of him that wonderful creature he married with a well-groomed face, a beautiful haircut and delightful lingerie. But let's look at it in more detail - is it so simple to keep your image of Cinderella at the ball with such a difficult stepmother - family life.
And all on your fragile shoulders!
Creating a home hearth, so praised by supporters of marriage, is a responsible and difficult task. Here, as they say, you will not take it overnight. After all, the pious one first of all what awaits in the morning? That's right, breakfast! It is advisable to go to bed, and even better with a smile on your face with all the women's arms: make-up, manicure, and so on; tail and robe do not roll. And, of course, do not forget about morning tenderness. So you have to be nice and the only one to get up long before your loved one opens his clear eyes, but otherwise, he works, feeds the family, and in a bad mood the sutra will not make any productive working day. Everything, conducted the husband to work, now it is possible and to have a rest. But not here it was! Women with children in the family immediately understand what they mean. After all, one or two or three golden ones, waking up in the morning, also expect their portion of affection and attention. Well, children at school, a husband at work, now you can probably sit down? Yes, sit at the stove, oven, ironing board and washing machine. What is not a working day? But still I want to be beautiful, not even just for my husband, but for myself. So you have to wear circles with a ladle in one hand, an iron in the other and mythically malicious rollers on the head, of course, in a home robe, so as not to splash out the prepared for the evening meeting from the work of your beloved husband. And so often it turns out. That in this daily bustle of such a working trance to create a home hearth, only the sound of the opening lock on the front door displays. And, oh, horror! In all the robes of a respectable hostess, a dear spouse with a sweet face, hidden under a cucumber mask, faces her spouse, looking at her with some kind of frightened look.
So the husbands have a contrasting image of their faithful spouse, such a “different” after the wedding. But the question is something else, what kind of "image of his spouse" can a man save? After all, the fact that a woman should always be beautiful, and in the water and in a burning hut, is an indisputable truth ... A hotbed, but one should not forget that a man still loves his eyes, and that a man should not squander his views to the right and on the left, you need to rivet his attention only to yourself, the one and only. In serious work, the spouse hardly has enough time to flirt with any ladies, but when he comes home, he, greatly bored by the feminine charm, is eager to see his most beautiful and lovely wife in all of white. And what should he think when, after a weary struggle with the front door, which took away his last strength, before his eyes striving for love, something arises from the fantastic film of Steven Spielberg! And you will not explain to him that so much has been done today so that tomorrow the faithful could put on a clean shirt, have breakfast in bed and not sneeze from dust. And female beauty requires time and effort! And how to be in such a closed situation? The decision is obvious as never before, because the lover has both hands and feet and a head, and with great "pleasure" he can help his beloved household chores on weekends or after work, he will not lose it. But the most beautiful and lovely wife will have time every day to confirm her status as a Cinderella at the ball.
In the end, it turns out that the wife in the family keeps not only the home with her everyday monotonous work, but also is the guardian of the very Love that tied the representatives of Mars and Venus into marriage. And the main joy for a man is the envious glances of his friends, who unexpectedly honored the spouses with their visit, and instead of the "Chupacabra" in a torn filthy robe, a green mask of unearthly origin and funny "cylinders" on their heads, they will see next to their friend a beautiful wife who can shine with its charm while the ladle is resting alone in a saucepan with fresh rich soup.
Especially for womeninahomeoffice.com - Michael