Women's misconceptions about men
Sometimes we women are sure that we are doing everything without error and we are the best, and let the whole world go around us. And when it comes to men, we are just experts in this matter. We know that they need from us, what they want from life, how they think and how they will behave in some situation. But, unfortunately, this is the most important female mistake. You should not be too confident in this matter. In this article we will highlight the most important mistakes that women make regarding men.
Perhaps, Our main mistake is the myth that men need only one thing from us and our inner world and all our feelings, emotions and experiences do not care for them deeply. Maybe before it was, and the men were too harsh, but now a lot has changed. In the modern world, a man is considered the main earner, so he spends all his days at work, and all his thoughts are busy with a career, and when he gets to the house, he no longer has the strength to think about some romantic evening or, all the more, sex. A woman sees all this, and thinks that the man has stopped loving her and it is more interesting for him to lie on the sofa than to talk to her. In fact, he just needs rest now, but that does not mean that he is so insensitive. Men as well as women are able to experience and experience feelings, and sometimes it gives them much more pleasure to talk to you heart to heart than to arrange a sex marathon in bed.
Another common mistake in women is that the way to a man’s heart is through... Well, the end, I think, so you know yourself. Of course, a girl should at least sometimes cook for her man, but only someone does it well and someone else does it worse. Yes, your ability to cook is another plus in your direction, but remember, for a man it is not important, and even more so the determining factor. And surely you will never keep a man next to your excellent cooking, you can even conduct an experiment: come first to your favorite with a plate of borscht, and then in a piquant dress. What do you think, which of the options he likes more? I think you already guessed.
It is also considered that appearance is not important for men, and indeed he should be a little prettier than a monkey. Of course, on the one hand it is, not for looks we love people. And if he has a number of other qualities, for example, he is a good conversationalist, intelligent, kind, and cares about you, then you will not be too worried that he has a bow curve. He compensates for his lack of appearance with internal qualities. Well, we are women, we are not always beauties. But there is a downside to this issue, we are girls to some extent also esthets, and we want to see with us, if not the sultry handsome, but at least a pleasant and well-groomed man, and sometimes we ourselves fall down on beautiful eyes or figure. Maybe it sounds a little rough, but it is in fact, and in life everything often happens.
Another common mistake of women is to think that all men are polygamous and they will surely change it at the opportunity, and they will do it without much remorse. Yes, there are undoubtedly men who can easily go to the left, but there are enough girls like that now. So let's not shift all the responsibility on men, we, too, are far from always being angels.
The following misconception: translate now real men, not what they used to be. Stop, and now think, how do you know what men used to be, did you see them or maybe you met somewhere other than books or movies? What makes you think that in the past, men were much more perfect and better than they are now? The man's brain is completely different than ours, so many things we will never understand, and whether it is worth it, because women and men are so interesting to each other that they are completely different. And besides, every girl can fashion her ideal out of her chosen one, and if she shows by her behavior and actions that she doesn’t care about the man who is near, then there will be no return from him, and even more so male actions.
There is another female delusion: at the moment when it comes to living together, or family life, all men seem to bloom and become idlers. He begins to behave as if everything is permitted to him. Of course, if you allow him everything yourself, do all the housework around the house and almost blow off dust particles from him, what else does he have to do if you don’t demand anything from him? A man can easily dissolve from too good a life, so add a little peppercorn in his usual behavior.
Perhaps, having read this article, you will not want to disbelieve in your misconceptions about men or find it too emotional, but wherever there are feelings, you cannot do without excessive emotions. We very much hope that you take note of the tips from the article and your family life will become more harmonious, and you will know how to react in a given situation to male behavior and avoid sharp corners.
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