A friend is one of the most important people in life. Sometimes we equate such relations with sisterhood. It is not surprising that with the advent of the birthday of a friend, each of us has a quite logical question: what to give? It would seem that nowhere is easier, because you are friends with her and you should know everything about each other. However, as a rule the more expensive a person is, the harder it is to choose a gift for him.
Difficulties in choosing a gift for a friend
So why is it often so difficult for us to choose a nice gift for someone who is very expensive? There are several reasons for this. First of all, look for the reason in yourself. Very often we, starting to choose something for another, are not confident in our abilities. It seems to us that what we choose will never like a friend for anything. Be more confident when choosing. After all, you are buying or doing something not for a person from the street, but for the one whose habits and interests you know, like no other. Remember that your doubts in this situation can only hurt.
Another stumbling block could be that your friend has everything. She gave a lot of things, and you do not want to repeat. But do not you think that a person who has everything you need for life can rejoice even in some simple thing that will decorate his house or help him in his passion?
How to choose a gift for a friend's birthday?
Since you know this person very well, her habits, attitudes, then you will simply have to choose a gift. It is only necessary to analyze all the circumstances that affect it.
- Concentrate on the personality traits of your girlfriend. To do this, you need to think about what qualities of character dominate in it. That is, if your girlfriend always cares about you, try to express gratitude in your gift for the fact that she appreciates you and helps you in difficult times. If, on the contrary, she is always reasonable and always sensibly assesses the circumstances, show that her cold mind has often helped you save yourself from rash actions. At the same time, think that such a person might lack affection and care. Try to melt the soul of the Snow Queen for at least one evening. Your task is to choose such a gift, so that having received it, your friend felt harmony and joy.
- Another important factor when choosing a gift for a friend is her interests. It all depends on them. Anything can be a determining factor: your favorite music, books, movies. Perhaps your friend always wanted to draw, but she could not walk to the art store. Give her paints and a canvas, and she will be in seventh heaven. Or maybe her dream has always been to write a script for the film. Give her a useful book, which can be a kind of tool for the screenwriter. Then, in the life of this person, you will always play a major role.
- In addition, you can pick up a gift from the circle of your friend's addictions. She probably loves coffee. Give her some exclusive brand that she has never tried. If in your or in the neighboring city at this time passes some kind of coffee festival, you should definitely buy tickets and go there together.
- Also gifts can be associated with lifestyle. For example, you know that a friend gets very tired at work and does not know how to rest at all. Give her something that she can use for herself. For example, a subscription to some SPA-salon, where professionals will help her to relax, and she will come out rested and renewed. A good remedy for fatigue and to acquire harmony will be yoga. Perhaps your girlfriend still could not decide to go to such courses. So give her this opportunity. If you know that she feels more comfortable at home, a cozy warm blanket and various things for relaxation will be a good gift.
- As for work, something can also be drawn from this. Moreover, it is necessary to give not something that is part of her work, but something that will allow you to make this time, which she spends there, more enjoyable. For example, if your girlfriend is an office worker, then it would be nice to give something that will decorate her desktop, give your eyes a rest from your computer, or will constantly chase away boredom. Those who have a job connected with large nerve loads need a player or just a disc with calm instrumental music that will relieve tension.
- When choosing a gift concentrate on the interests and preferences. Anyone will be happy if they give him what he needs, what he lacked for happiness. When you analyze everything, it will not be difficult to make a suitable gift.
What kind of gift you choose depends primarily on the preferences of your girlfriend. As soon as you can highlight what she loves the most, it will immediately become easier. And then - full scope for your imagination. And most importantly, Believe that your close friend will be glad to any of your gifts, because it is so important for her that you pay attention to her.