Seduction with nlp

What is NLP? The abbreviation is interpreted as neuro-linguistic programming, and it is used to manipulate the human mind. The main tool is the words with which you can immerse the interlocutor in the desired state, and then "inspire" him what you want. Perhaps someone such a technique to seduce men is a bit shocking, but after her, the object of attention will definitely not remain indifferent and will look for a new meeting.

There is a meeting with a man who is terribly like, and do not know how to lead yourself to leave an impression? First, think about where you will meet. It should be a place with a pleasant cozy atmosphere, so that no one distracts you, and you can focus on each other. Suitable for a quiet cafe or park, or an apartment with a neutral territory for you. Nothing should annoy a man, he should relax in your presence. Now you need to perform the following tricky actions, gather courage and realize your plan.


Start talking about how much bad is in you and you are not worthy of the attention of such a beautiful person as he. Remember how you acted wrong with him, even if there was no such thing or you didn’t do anything at all, think up some trifle and blow your guilt out of it. Your interlocutor will see how beautiful you are and begin to prove to you the opposite. This is the first step towards success. Tell us about how you do not like your positive qualities and do not consider them as such. For example, you think that you often help people and consider it the duty of all normal people to help each other, but you are infuriated when someone cannot help another for some trifle. And then add that this is the right of everyone to help people or not, and it is not your business to judge them.

Praise his faults

Then, in the course of the conversation, unobtrusively praise the man, turning his lack of dignity. For example, you see that in front of you sits a candid womanizer who is not very serious. Tell him that you know that he had many women, but he doesn’t go through them because of excitement, but because he hasn’t met a woman from whom he’d blown the roof off: “Everyone thinks you are windy, but you're just looking for your ideal. "

Copy it

Now try to adapt to it, copy his voice, style of communication and even gestures. Of course, it should not look as if you are in a parody competition; it should be done gently and unobtrusively. To begin with, take the same pose as his and try to speak with the same intonation and pace of speech, and then you can proceed to the repetition of his gestures and manners. In order not to experience feelings of embarrassment when copying other people's manners, practice beforehand. The most vivid example of adjusting to each other is a couple of lovers, they get it so natural, because they are on the same wavelength. So you need to catch the wave of the interlocutor, to feel his condition. Trace with what expressiveness and tempo of speech the interlocutor speaks and answer him in the same spirit. But do not make gross mistakes, for example, copying too obvious gestures: crossing the legs can be replaced by crossing the arms on the chest, so that the man does not guess anything, you also cannot copy the shortcomings of speech - otherwise he will decide that you are simply mocking him.

Talk about a former relationship

When you have a trusting contact, start the subject of a former relationship. You can briefly tell you about your former partner, and then ask about his past love relationships. Just ask to tell the good and joyful moments that connect him with the former love. Ask why he chose this particular girl, what qualities he liked in her, you must revive in his memory all the good things that connected him to the object of love. Now you must redirect those fond memories to yourself. To do this, imagine yourself as his ex-girlfriend and start talking, as if on her behalf, suppose: "She must have been crazy about your beautiful blue eyes." Well, now is the time to introduce your object into a state of light trance, for example, pour him some alcohol, dance a slow dance with him or have a relaxing massage. You yourself will notice when he becomes more inclined towards you and if at the very beginning you adjusted to his behavior, now he will copy you unconsciously. You can check it out if you change your posture or intonation, he will also imitate you.

When a man weakens his control so much that his eyelids will become heavy and his eyes will be slightly half-closed, do not stop and continue to speak as if you are his ex-girlfriend. Say him compliments or just pleasant words in the face of the former, but do not forget to mention how he would react to this, for example, say that he would really like her massage. Well, now look at the partner’s reaction, if you feel that he has already reached the desired state, you can proceed to closer contact - gently touch his hand, press him a little more tightly, if he accepts your caresses, then you can go further and if he moves away from you, then pause and continue the conversation.

Here, of course, it all depends on what goal you pursue with this man. If you want just intimacy with him, then you can easily achieve it by introducing him into a state of trance. And if you want to crash into his memory for a long time and make him think about you every free minute, then wait with intimate intimacy. Just break your contact with him without any explanation and say that you are in a great hurry. The effect will not be slow in waiting. The whole secret is that with the help of a light trance, a man transfers his feelings towards his former partner to you.

This is a technique for courageous girls who do not like to obey patterns and stereotypes in seduction!

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