The current relationship between a man and a woman has ceased to be traditional. Today, no one is surprised if the first step is taken by a girl. If you have a date with an interesting person, why not take the initiative and try to fall in love with the guy of your dreams?
How to fall in love with a guy: practical advice
Before you begin to charm a guy, remember that all male representatives are different from each other, an individual approach is needed to the heart of each of them. However, there are several universal rules that will help you.
- Must look good. Under this phrase does not necessarily hide the luxurious dress and evening makeup. "Look good" in the first place means that you need to care for yourself. Well-groomed girl will always have to communicate, because, as you know, men love their eyes. Do not despair if nature has not rewarded you with an outstanding appearance that meets all the canons of classical beauty. The main thing is always try to look neat and tidy. Hair and skin must be clean, clothes are selected with taste, and make-up can be completely weightless. Do not forget about manicure and pedicure. In your image, everything should be harmonious.
- Keep a mystery. Mysteriousness is one of the most important tools of charm that a woman conceals in herself. Communicating with the man of your dreams, do not reveal all the secrets of your personal life, all the information about yourself at once. Let him know about you gradually. In addition, excessive talkativeness and self-centeredness can scare a man away and leave not so pleasant impressions about you as you would like. You should make a guy interested.
- Show your originality. It all comes down to interest. Of course, the young man will be more interesting to communicate with a girl who is somehow different from others. Your hobbies are just the topic that should be raised, talking about yourself. Perhaps you play some instrument, write elemental stories, draw well or embroider a cross. People who have hobbies always stand out from the crowd and have a much greater attraction.
- Do not forget about the interests of the guy. Show interest in his studies. It will be great if his hobby becomes in some way yours. In this case, it is absolutely not necessary (and it is not necessary) to forget about yourself and your hobbies. Just participate in his life.
- Become a person. With a capital letter! If a person sees how you attract people to yourself that you are always cheerful and cheerful, he will want to continue to communicate with you. Try to fascinate not only the guy you want, but all around. First, it is nice. Secondly, the person you need, seeing that you like so many people around you, will surely think that he admires you too.
- Engage in self-development. The statement that men are not attracted to smart women is fundamentally wrong. To become an interesting person, you need to fully develop. Take care of your hobbies, read, watch and listen - learn various information. Of course, to know everything is impossible, and not necessary. You have to surprise each other, tell something interesting, discuss various issues.
- Be unavailable. Men are hunters by nature, so the process of winning a girl is of particular importance to them. This does not mean that you should be as cold as an iceberg. When communicating, show gentleness, tenderness and kindness - you are a girl. But in any case, do not show that you are available and crazy about the guy. Do not be afraid to make him jealous a little. The main thing is not to overdo it. Let him still have a slight feeling that he may lose you, that he is not the center of the Universe for you, and you can easily live without him.
- Let's shake it up. When he calls you, you shouldn’t run away and grab the phone. Periodically skip calls, be late for meetings (only briefly), you can even leave a couple of times earlier. Let him drink a little. Only, again, everything is good in moderation. Do not lose the edge when interest and mild nervousness turns into anger.
- Get ready for the meetings. Nobody forbade girls to make signs of attention to the guy. It is also nice for them. Delight him with a cute little thing, have a picnic or dinner. After all, the relationship is built by two, not one.
Can I stick a guy in 1 day?
At first glance, this seems impossible, but in reality everything is not so bad. Of course, you will not be able to make the guy have strong feelings for you, but you will definitely be able to interest him. First, understand that falling in love means leaving a lasting impression of yourself, making him think of you and settling the desire to meet again. For this purpose, activate all your feminine charms. Almost all the techniques listed above will do.
To make an impression, dress beautifully and elegantly, for example, a black dress, heels, and do not forget about perfumes (you can even use with pheromones). At the meeting, let the guy know that you liked him. But this should be done gently and gently. Do not forget about the mystery. Do not fully reveal to the man, and even more so do not immediately move on to intimate relationships. Otherwise, the guy will lose interest, and in his eyes you will become easy prey. It is completely useless. To the guy it became clear that you are interested in him, you can leave him a phone number.
Dating through correspondence: rules
Many single girls find themselves penpals. Fortunately, modern technology allows you to do this easily and quickly. Networking hides much from our eyes. However, here, applying a few simple rules, you can fall in love with a person if he is interested in you.
- Try to write "live" messages. This will allow you to maximize the interest of the interlocutor. At the same time, take the time and analysis written in response. So you can study vis-à-vis in more detail.
- Write correctly and make sentences so that the interlocutor understands them and does not conceal a double meaning. Literate girls are always attracted, and the simplicity of the proposals creates an ease of perception. It will be pleasant to person to communicate with you, and this is already a big plus.
- If possible, do not proceed in the 1st message to other thoughts. No need to load the interlocutor at once with a large amount of unrelated information.
- Try to trust a pen friend. Write to him about your feelings, do not hide them. The guy is very difficult through messages to understand whether you like him. So try to at least hint about it. In addition, as a rule, electronic messages give greater looseness. So why not open your soul to the person with whom you correspond?
- Also try to answer quickly. Otherwise, the interlocutor may seem that you do not show interest in him. Of course, the rule of mystery is valid here, but do not overdo it with pauses. Online you can quickly get bored.
- Have fun while chatting. The guy will be much nicer to read messages cheerful companion. Do not forget about the desires and feelings of your counterpart. You do not correspond with a computer or telephone, but with a living person who, like you, is sitting in front of the monitor waiting for an interesting conversation, support or jokes. Communication in the network, as well as live, suggests emotionality. Otherwise, it will just be boring and pointless.
You can fall in love with a guy, even if he already has a girlfriend. The methods and techniques for this are mostly easy, but in any case, you have to work on yourself and your behavior. If he does not fall in love with you, do not worry. Remember that the light does not meet the wedge of only one person. Surely, there is still someone who will appreciate you and your efforts for dignity.