Olesya and Sergey have been together for many years. During this time, nothing has happened in their lives, but the most important embodiment of their love for each other is their beloved son. The secret of this couple's happy life is the realization that life does not get better from conflicts, so you need to treat each other with patience and understanding.
Tell us where and how did you meet and how many have been together?
Olesya:We got acquainted, in general, simply, at the dances. It was January 1, 1999 (Oh, so long ago!). After a year of meetings, we decided that we wanted to be together. Together for 13 years.
How did you understand that you want to be together? Why did you choose him?
Olesya:Why chose him? I do not even know, it is clear from above something has pushed. It so happened.
Have you ever quarreled, and did you get to partings?
Olesya:Did we quarrel? Of course yes. Without this, a couple rarely lives, and we are no exception.
The secret of how you put up?
Olesya:There are no secrets for reconciliation, I just can’t be angry, angry for a long time, even if I'm right. My heart somehow becomes hard when a loved one is around, and you are silent, do not speak, are angry. Most difficult. And who is worse from the fact that you will lead the "cold war"? Only the most. If you love a person, you will try to smooth the conflict.
Have you had hard times in your life and how did you overcome them together?
Olesya:Hard times were. Overcome again with love.
Do you have children, and how the birth of children influenced your relationship? Olesya:We have a son. His birth also influenced the relationship. Not all men at once "Ah" - and ready father. Sometimes he was afraid to take the baby in his arms, this, of course, offended me. But now the child is already 7 years old, and they live “in perfect harmony”. Did jealousy take place in a relationship? If so, how did you cope with it? Olesya:Frankly, yes. I'm jealous. Probably I will be jealous until the end, although sometimes it is not worth it, but I can’t do anything about it.
Did Passion Have a Place?
Olesya:That's about the passion I can not even remember anything, basically everything is exactly.
What is love for you?
Olesya:Love for me is to give warmth to a loved one. Love and respect, do not hurt your loved one. Sometimes our love is selfish, i.e. I want and everything, love me, I want you to be with me, etc. Love may be in different cities, but it may not be in the same room.
Please give advice to readers.
Olesya:LOVE and BE LOVED, give your loved ones warmth and joy, talk about your feelings, do things, show signs of attention. Let it not be expensive gifts, let it be wild flowers, but from a pure heart and great love.
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