You can look at this couple and think that for a strong relationship is friendly enough affection. But communication with them suggests that love can be different. Passion is not always equal to love, so do not identify these two feelings. Egor and Ksenia are like a calm sea in clear weather: warm, the sun is shining, unlimited love and inner peace.
Models Anya and Denis, photographer Lana Gushchina
The interview was provided by Ksenia, a mother of two children.
Katrin: Tell us where and how you met.
Kseniya: We know each other from school - we studied in parallel classes, so we know each other, one might say, from childhood. But at school everyone had their own concerns, I didn’t even have an idea there that later I would tie up my future life with this person and would raise children.
Katrin: How many have you got together since the day you met?
Kseniya: Acquaintance, as I said, was a very long time. But a close acquaintance, the day we started dating - nine years ago. And for seven years, we live in wedlock.
Katrin: How did you understand that you want to be together? Why did you choose him / her?
Kseniya: Strangely enough, school years, shared memories meant and meant a lot to us. And of the qualities in a husband, I like his good nature and the constant smile on his face.
Katrin:Have you ever quarreled, and did you get to partings?
Kseniya: No, we are not one of those who quarrel.
Katrin:The secret of how you put up?
Kseniya: Do not quarrel, and therefore do not have to put up. In our family everything is quiet and peaceful.
Katrin:How did the appearance of children (if any) affect your relationship?
Kseniya: Children made a variety in our lives)). Time for each other, of course, is less, but then we have become more attentive, empathetic. I think this is good.
Katrin:Have you had hard times in your life, and how did you overcome them together?
Kseniya: A few years ago my husband was fired from his job. For him it was a blow, for some time my husband just dropped out of life. I tried not to put pressure on him morally, to let him come to his senses. As it turned out later, I did the right thing. For a man, after all, feeling like a breadwinner in a family is an increase in internal self-esteem.
Katrin:How to keep the relationship so far? What helped you?
Kseniya: Calm and confidence in each other and tomorrow. For the two of us, this is very important. There is no closer person on the entire planet, so you don’t need to invent a lot to keep the relationship. They just eat by themselves, and it pleases.
Katrin:Did jealousy take place in a relationship? If so, how did you deal with it?
Kseniya: The husband is absolutely unsurpassed. It happens to me, sometimes something moves inside, but I try to extinguish jealousy at the very beginning, not to develop it.
Katrin:What about passion?
Kseniya: Passion, as such, probably was not. At least, such as in the movie show. We have more and more gently, calmly.
Katrin:What is love for you?
Kseniya: Love - confidence in each other, in its half, mutual understanding.
If you like to constantly quarrel and sort things out - this is your right. But think about whether the current state of affairs suits you? Love can be shown in different ways, in much softer and safer ways than jealous tracking of each step of the “half” and figuring out whose resentment is greater. Try to find another family option when you create a cozy, peaceful oasis from external threats.
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