They always have time for each other. Common hobby - what better way to get closer? Alena and Sergey met in a tourist trip, now they have many plans for the future, one of which is to raise their son adequately.
Photographer Lana Gushchina
Tell us where and how you met.
Alyona: Our acquaintance took place on a camping trip. Once, our future husband joined our friendly company, with which we are accustomed to make forays into the mountains. Actually, from the first days we found each other.
Sergei: I remember that in one song they advise to check a faithful friend high in the mountains. So we appreciated each other there, at the height of the peaks. After this, it is much easier to build relationships here, "below."
How long have you been together since the day you met? How many met before the wedding or cohabitation?
BUT: It was to live together, we began only after the birth of his son. Before that, everyone lived with their parents. Such our joint "communication" lasted about four years. Now my son is already a half, and we rent an apartment.
How did you understand that you want to be together? Why did you choose him / her?
BUT: Love at first sight - in my opinion this is the correct definition. That is how it was.
WITH: There was no analysis: "Oh, this girl knows how to cook well!" Just decided and everything.
Have you ever quarreled, and did you get to partings?
BUT: Quarrel rarely, but aptly. Parted a maximum of several hours. That was enough to cool down and find ways to reconciliation.
The secret of how you put up? Is there a "core method of reconciliation"?
BUT: In general, there is no secret. We just sit down and start talking, long and tedious, until we find out all the controversial points.
WITH: Why quarrel if you can talk? Fortunately, before whipping dishes did not reach.
How did the appearance of children affect your relationship?
BUT: Thanks to our son, we live together as a family. We try to do so that attention is enough for everyone.
WITH: The birth of a son, clearly, became an incentive for me. It’s one thing to make money and it’s completely different to be responsible for the child. Became more responsible. It is well influenced by the relationship. If there were no child, then it is unknown how long we would live “on two houses”.
Have you had hard times in your life, and how did you overcome them together?
BUT: Perhaps this is the most difficult period - now. I am with a child, my husband is spinning at work, seeking opportunities to rent an apartment and ensure a decent life for us. And I try to create a homey and relaxed friendly atmosphere.
How to keep the relationship so far? What helped you?
BUT: We love each other and therefore we are together. No one ever spoke of parting.
WITH: Yes, somehow it goes.
Did jealousy take place in a relationship? And if so, how did you cope with it?
BUT: I often jealous husband to his work, social circle, active life. But this is not so much because of my bad temper, but because of the constant sitting in the four walls.
Did Passion Have a Place? Is there still?
BUT: How to live without passion - I do not know. We have it flashes periodically with a new force. And this is great.
WITH: There is. And will be!
What is love for you? What allowed you to keep the relationship still?
BUT: Absolute trust, understanding and sensitivity to each other.
Advice to readers: Learn to hear each other. If you are one, then you should not lose yourself in pieces! Believe in the best of times, but do not forget to live for today.
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