Father's role in raising children

I have a father!

No matter what he is!

The world's best dad

BecauseMY HE!

All children in the world think so. And how recklessly women act who deprive a child of communication with the father only because they, in adults, have ended the relationship, the family has broken up.

Dear mothers, stop, think again! Your relationship with a man ended, but from this he did not cease to be a father (of course, if we are talking about an adequate person, and not a complete scoundrel).

Children are not fun, they require up-to-the-minute education. After all, raising children is the most difficult and most time-consuming work on the planet. And you, lovely women, need a reliable assistant.

Of course, it is not a secret to anyone that the modern woman took responsibility for the material well-being of the family. She quite successfully competes with men in a professional field, making a career. And he almost fairly believes that he can calmly raise children, often resorting to the help of nannies. But no one can ever replace a child of parental attention.

What is the role of the father in raising his child

Leading experts (both Russian and foreign) believe that fathers (in most cases) are more responsible in their educational process. It is important not to interfere with this, trying to show that the mother is more important for the child. Children will no less love their mother, spending more and more time with their father.

The main thing in the father's upbringing is to be a child friend, an example, and not a "holiday dad". The father’s role is not in gifts and entertainment, although it is also necessary for children. The father’s role is in the personal (positive) example in relation to the woman (in particular, to the mother), and in relation to certain situations arising in the family and society.

The father should help her daughter to learn to understand a person of the opposite sex, and her son to become a real man — a support from his mother, later his wife and family.

American psychologists believe that fathers should take a sincere interest in the success of the child, often communicate with him, answer his questions (honestly). The child trusts such a father, does not take offense at his severity, and fulfills all the rules adopted in this family.

An outstanding thinker of the 20th century, Erich Fromm, saw fatherly love more demanding that a child should deserve. If a mother loves her child from the first days of pregnancy, and by the time he is born, he no longer thinks of life without him, then his father’s love serves as a reward for correct behavior, for certain successes of the child; that is, the father is the controller, the bearer of certain requirements, discipline.

Austrian psychologist and psychiatrist Alfred Adler defines the father as a source of knowledge of the child about the world, technology, which forms socially useful goals and vocational guidance in a small person.

Parents are not born. Therefore, in many countries of the world (in particular, in the USA, France, Germany) schools have been created for popes, which are successfully functioning and are becoming more and more prevalent. Where is the father to learn how to care for the baby, play with him, understand and accept him, see the personality in his son or daughter, and help his development.

Russian men, unfortunately, for the time being mostly retain the image of the father - the breadwinner, considering taking care of children as a typically female occupation. But, in fairness, it is worth noting that in Russia fathers are more and more often involved in childcare, along with their mother are involved in education.

Psychologists have published data that a connection has been found between the level of complexity of the father’s profession and the level of mental development of the child, even his talents.

Dad, remember, you are not a breadwinner, but a man who reveals the world to a small creature, helping him grow to be fit, capable, confident in his abilities. Friendly address the child, confidently use encouragement and punishment. Do not curry favor with him, but teach justice. Do not bribe, but learn decency. Never humiliate your child. (He will forgive everything, but not humiliation.) Do not take advantage of age - try to be one step with your child.

To educate does not mean to prohibit, punish. To educate is to cooperate.

In recent years, humanity has stepped far forward. It has overcome gravity and is committed to the stars. But in matters of education, it refers to the ancient customs - every man for himself. Don't be indifferent, father. Make every effort to ensure that your continuation is beautiful, you need a family and humanity.

Especially for LedySpecial - Natalia