Choosing a man for serious relationship

Do you want me to tell you what needs to be done so that in the near future you will shine with happiness, that you finally have a true relationship? Enough to read this article. You do not have time to be surprised, as you walk the right path, on which the only man forever waiting for you! You will understand what kind of man you need, how to distinguish him from unnecessary claimants for the hand and heart. Here are described specific steps, following which you will very soon go to the hall of a combination of marriages, accompanied by your chosen one and your friends and relatives, to the sounds of the march of Mendelssohn. Well, if this celebration is still delayed, it means that you have “not grown” to the kind of relationship you dream about .. Do not rush things. This step is very important! Use this time better to develop and, having reached a certain level, you will meet your man. Required. No options.

Start cooking for the role of a wife

Long before the approach to the decision to marry. To do this, first of all, you need to look at yourself: image, appearance, manners. Who will they attract? I assure that men of any age, living in any country, of different religions invariably agree on one thing: they value virtue and modesty in a girl. Accessibility attracts only for a short time for vested interests and only psychologically immature, infantile men. Do you need them? Of course not. Secondly, you must clearly understand for yourself what your ideals are, what you believe in (God, Higher Mind, etc.), because it defines your values. If you change your point of view depending on the circumstances, it will be easy to manipulate you, and this will invariably be thrown back. Formulate principles for yourself and live in accordance with them, then you will only have to accept or reject the proposals (based on your principles). And third: you must be reasonable, i.e. able to think. This means that before you do something, think: "What will it bring to me tomorrow?" Men are afraid of excessive emotionality in a woman; they are simply powerless to understand her behavior. Therefore, they will appreciate the one that knows how to think.

What should be husband

This man, who is looking for any woman, must meet the following criteria: first, he must have his own system of values, unbreakable, slender, reasonable. This is so that a woman can respect him. Without this, a man swims where the wind blows. This is not serious. Second: the man must be responsible. Nature laid down that in a pair of leadership should belong to the man. He should know where to go and calmly bring his ship to its destination. The husband was created to protect, shelter his wife and offspring. Choose such a person for whom you would like to go, whom you could trust. And third: sacrifice. You have to make sure that your chosen one is ready for feats for you, but not literally, of course. This can be expressed, for example, in the fact that when you feel unwell, and he is going fishing with friends, he will stay with you. He sacrificed his hobby for you, he is not afraid to look like a henpecked in the eyes of friends, because you are valuable to him, just a treasure! Take care of such a man!

How to find someone to go through life

In order not to be mistaken when choosing a life partner, one should be guided by simple principles.

1. Marriage is necessary only with similar values. You must have a single authority. On the way of each pair there are obstacles, difficulties. How will you overcome them? What will be guided by? If the husband is an atheist, and you believe in God, it will be difficult to keep the ship even with weak gusts of wind. Husband and wife must draw strength from one source, then you will smoothly row in one direction.

2. You must match each other. Tit cannot be a pair of eagles. The eagle is looking for an eagle. This refers to the origin, conditions of upbringing, material well-being, relations in parental families, education, level of development. Unequal marriages are short-lived, bring disappointment and pain.

3. Marriage should be only for love! Are you ready to devote his life to him, to serve him until the end of days? And he will give his life for you without a doubt? If your answer is yes, congratulations!

4. Your decision. When you first start dating, after the first date you have to decide and honestly admit to each other - do you want to continue dating, if yes, for what? It is important to be honest with yourself and with your partner. If the above is in it and all the criteria are the same (all without exception), nothing will interfere adequately with the joint path! If at least one of the points does not match - do not hurry, so that it would not be painfully painful afterwards.

You may be confused by the abundance of items and criteria that should be followed when searching for a life partner. This is only at first glance. I specifically made the most concrete, so that you do not get confused. I hope you have the overall picture correctly. But just in case, check yourself again. If you are determined to find a man for a serious relationship = to create a family, start preparing yourself for the role of your wife today; ask the future satellite, from the Universe, from God; rest assured - he is already there, he is already on his way to you; know that there is a time for everything (you must mature in order to bear responsibility for the husband); be honest with yourself and with men, keep your distance as long as you can (ideally, before the wedding), believe me, this will clarify his intentions almost immediately. That's all that is required from a woman for her future to be bright and joyful!

Especially for - Lyudmila

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