The question of kindergarten for many families arises very sharply. Numerous advice from psychologists that it is better to give girls to kindergarten by three years and boys to four are completely useless in the current realities of the day. Here at least somehow take shape in this institution, what can we say about the choice of the child's age!
And here comes the long-awaited news that the baby is ready to be taken in the d / s. But are you ready to go there? Sometimes not only children, but even their parents are completely unprepared for such an important event in life. Whether the child enters the team quickly depends on his mood and preliminary preparation.
When adults near the child begin to regret that they have to go to the d / s, he thinks about the most terrible. Feel free to discard anxiety aside and do not let others do it in the presence of a baby! It is better to make an enthusiastic look and to please the crumbs with interesting news. Then describe how cool it is to communicate with other children, how many friends can be made. Be sure to mention that in the kindergarten a lot of toys and books, there will be exciting musical activities and matinees. Tell us that you also loved to go to kindergarten, because it’s so interesting there! Since the middle of summer we have described the benefits of kindergarten to our children in mid-summer. The daughter, waking up in the morning, asked: "Today we go?". I had to say I had to wait.
Drop aside the threat: "If you do not obey, I will give to kindergarten!" It is better to say otherwise: "If you behave yourself, then I will allow you to attend classes. And if you indulge, you will have to wait." When the method of promotion follows a positive story about the kindergarten, the child wants to go there. Therefore, he did not want to give up such a tempting prospect of playing with other children. Even then, when the child went to kindergarten, I could say: "Do you want to go to school tomorrow? Then behave yourself, otherwise you will have to leave home!" Our children are well aware that very few people will play with them on weekdays - mom is busy working at the computer, and dad is at work. For active communication there is evening and weekend. And in order not to be bored during the day while friends play in the garden, the children very much wanted to join the group. Perhaps this attitude explains why the daughter was very rarely and quickly recovered ...
Excursion to kindergarten
Several times go with the child in the d / s. Go through the dressing room, look in the group, show the game room and the beds in the bedroom. Tell us that he will be left without parents here, as if he is an adult. But you will definitely come and go after him and go home! Children and I came to the d / c territory several times, walked around the playground and saw a swing, a slide and cabins. And all the way back they said that this sandbox will require a special spatula, which will have to be presented to the kindergarten. Or how interesting it is to play here.
Best of all, the clothes of children can be easily removed and dressed, unbuttoned and fastened. At a young age, velcro and buttons successfully replace the laces, hooks and buttons. In the future, you can teach your child to unbutton buttons and tie shoelaces yourself. Be sure to put an extra set of clothes in the bag! Even better, not one, but two. Even if the child had walked perfectly on the pot before, in the kindergarten he could play and wet the panties.
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On each thing belonging to your child, it is worth making a mark. We had a case when the son came home in someone else's shorts. They messed up the locker and put on someone's change of clothes. It hurt me very much - yet we erase with phosphate-free powders, monitor the hygiene of children, and here such neglect! Moreover, the child tried to say that it was not his clothes, but no one listened. I had to hold an explanatory conversation with both the nurse and the caregiver ... Since then, such cases have not been repeated.
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