Happy couple - maria and aleksey

This pair brought fate, otherwise you can not say. In their relationship, I saw a lot: love, sarcasm, warmth, fatigue, mutual assistance. Very seldom, “dirty linen was taken from the hut”. Interesting fate, full of weaves. The family has two daughters (adults) who no longer live with their parents - each has its own way.

Models - Anton Nikolsky and Victoria Nikolskaya, photographer Lana Guschina

Tell us where and how did you meet?

Alexey:My sister studied with Masha on the same course. I arrived with huge bags, and they decided to feed me from the road. I saw her eyes and ... lost!

Maria:He then perfectly knew how to nurse the girls! And now I'm ready to spell your speeches. Then we said - a womanizer, and now - "charismatic"!

How many are already together?

M: This fall, celebrated 30 years from the date of the wedding. We thought in a modest way, but friends were impressed and organized gatherings in a cafe. So I had to make up, find a dress and go.

BUT: She does not like to be beautiful! Although he knows how to do it perfectly. Laziness is simple.

How did you understand that you want to be together? Why did you choose him (her)?

BUT:This is a long story ... I'm still going, having a smoke, and here you are talking.

M:It is always like this: he will ask cases, and he will dodge somewhere. I was naive, only just turned 18. Then, after all, “there was no sex” and the parents never discussed this topic with me. I held on for a long time, did not succumb to his charms. And then Alenka, his sister, married out. They had love there since high school, so the parents calmly treated. In general, I drank too much at the wedding, succumbed to Alexey's persuasion to retire in the room ... For some reason I thought that after “once” nobody flies. For me, pregnancy was oh how unexpected! I remember crying sobbing. And he calmly listened and said: "Let's get married."

BUT: I returned! Didn't miss anything? Has she said that she had to conquer her for several years? Not??? N-yes, only women can talk about anything for half an hour.

Have you ever quarreled, and did you get to partings?

M:It happened. But is it worth it?

BUT:She could not forgive me for this pregnancy. She loved the baby at first sight, but considered pregnancy to be the worst period in her life. And when, after a year, the second one suddenly drew itself, it was a great scandal. And that I specifically, and that locked in a cage. I had to try hard to prove the opposite. To part? She left me several times for her mom. But there and so eaters - a mouthful, and when the children are still cunning ... Returning very quickly!

The secret of how you put up?

BUT:Flowers and sweet - it always worked. It is not difficult for me to apologize, even if it is not my fault in the quarrel.

M:Imagine my life has changed a lot! Instead of graduate school I had to nurse the girls, put them on their feet and forget about science. Emotions were very difficult to control, but when I cooled down, I understood that it was my home with Him.

How did the appearance of children affect your relationship?

M:At first there was a very big split. I thought that I would leave him somewhere 1-2 times a month. Sometimes she collected things and went to her parents. But it’s one thing to be the mistress of the house, and another to listen to the teachings on foreign territory. And then, when the girls had already gone to school and stopped hurting often, we suddenly became a close-knit family!

BUT: Yes, I agree. We were finally able to start “going out”. Often on weekends in nature out. Our relationship began to strengthen day by day.

Have you had hard times in your life and how did you overcome them together?

M: It was when they decided to open their first "business". Engaged in growing flowers and selling in the market. It all ended very sadly: we were “hit” a couple of times, and then a haystack burned down in one night ... along with it - and a greenhouse with flowers. We understood the hint and left the road.

BUT: The police did not start a case. They said that since I smoke, I could throw a cigarette butt nearby. What do you prove to them? No one needs a visor. So we decided to start from scratch, but in another city. They took and moved.

How to keep the relationship so far? What helped you?

M:I knew that I had nowhere to go with my two children. Who needs me? Then she looked around and realized that I had a wonderful husband! Does not drink, does not hit, wears on hands. And this is how tenderness appeared, and then love.

BUT: Love. And her huge eyes, still love them!

Did Jealousy have a place in a relationship, if so, how did you cope with it?

M:At first, yes. I am at home, but he is not clear where. Besides, I knew very well about his ability to charm. When the children grew a little, she began to go everywhere with him to show that I would not give my husband!

BUT:I was ready to be jealous of everyone I met. But did not show. What for?

Did Passion Have a Place? Is it now?

M: If it was not, then our girls were not. Relations have become more relaxed, but still sparkles between us.

BUT:And it was, and is.

What is love for you?

BUT: It can not be described in words. It can only be felt.

M: This is a beacon that does not go astray.

Advice to readers:Believe that this relationship is the most important thing in life! The rest is sure to follow!

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